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Appreciating Our Kid’s Uniqueness Using Human Design With Shilamida Friedman

Season 2, Ep. 15

In this episode you will listen to an interview with Shilamida Friedman, we talked about appreciating the uniqueness of our children, and understanding and accepting that each individual is here on their path and has their mission to fulfill. We dove into how human design can be an incredibly valuable tool as parents to learn more about our children’s personalities, strengths, and traits, and how we can parent them in a way that will support them to grow to their full potential. We also touched upon understanding our kids' love language and how it can be a game changer in our relationship with our kids when we understand how they interpret our love signals and how we can be more international in showing them love in a way that they need. 


Here are some links to find Shilamida:


www.Shilamida.com

www.instagram.com/50shadesofshilamida

www.instagram.com/goddess_of_gratitude

www.youtube.com/@50shadesofshilamida

www.pinterest.com/Shilamida



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