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Manosphere: Debunked
The 80/20 rule: Do women only date 'up'?
The manosphere would have you believe that women can't escape their 'hypergamous nature' - they always seek out men of higher status as partners. But what if it's more complicated than that? Spoiler alert - it is. Aileen takes Dan on a tour of the rhetoric and the research.
Manosphere: Debunked is hosted by Aileen Barratt (@tindertranslators) and Dan, the anonymous psychologist (@the_nice_ish_psychologist), on Instagram.
Aileen's book, Tinder Translator: An A-Z of Modern Misogyny, is available here.
Visit The Nice-ish Rambling Substack page here.
References from this week's episode:
Men Who Hate Women by Laura Bates | Waterstones
Any good dating app stories? #profg #scottgalloway #dating #hinge #tinder #raya #shorts - YouTube
Jordan Peterson - Female Hypergamy and its Impact on Human Evolution - YouTube
Manosphere hypergamy chart: https://twitter.com/RationalMale/status/1050411628406104064?s=20
Dataclysm by Christian Rudder | Waterstones
Aileen’s Instagram post on hypergamy has the Dataclysm chart, view it here: A deep-ish dive into the the concept of "female hypergamy", which is largely the… | Instagram
Why Are Men in Crisis? | Real Time with Bill Maher (HBO) - Bing video
Young U.S. men having a lot less sex in the 21st century, study shows | Reuters
Whither Hypergamy? | Institute for Family Studies (ifstudies.org)
(PDF) Educational Assortative Mating and the Decline of Hypergamy in 27 European Countries
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42:21||Season 1, Ep. 24It is a statistic universally acknowledged that men are more likely to be homeless than women. But is there more to it than that? Of course there is! Manosphere: Debunked is hosted by Aileen Barratt (@tindertranslators) and Dan, the anonymous psychologist (@the_nice_ish_psychologist).We’re now on instagram! https://www.instagram.com/manospheredebunkedpodAileen's book, Tinder Translator: An A-Z of Modern Misogyny, is available here.Visit The Nice-ish Rambling Substack page here.Dan's new podcast is The Uncommon Bloke podcast https://shows.acast.com/the-uncommon-bloke-podcast (you can listen, Aileen won't be offended). References:SNOMED Clinical Terms DefinitionPeople experiencing homelessness, England and Wales: Census 2021“Hidden” Homelessness in the UK: evidence reviewOff the Streets: Tackling Homelessness Among Female Street-based Sex WorkersA Hidden Side of Homelessness: Why Women Avoid Homeless SheltersGender-Based Violence and Young Homeless WomenWritten evidence submitted by Agenda [HOL 133]23. Is the gender pay gap real? Part 2
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