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Love Hacks
5 Subtle Ways We Destroy Love — Without Realizing It.
Season 6, Ep. 7
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What really ends a relationship?
In this episode, we uncover the 5 most common ways people unconsciously sabotage their relationships — from lack of emotional safety and communication, to pride, avoidance, and fear of vulnerability.
You’ll learn how these patterns show up, how to recognize your own, and what to do to rebuild trust and connection — before it’s too late.
🎧 New Love Hacks episode: “Why Relationships Fall Apart — and How to Stop It from Happening.”
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11. Cuando sí se compromete (y cuándo no) 1Esto es lo que cambia TOD
36:43||Season 1, Ep. 11En este episodio de Love Hacks desglosamos qué es lo que realmente hace que alguien se comprometa… y qué no. Hablamos de la diferencia entre interés e intención, por qué las señales mixtas no son confusión sino información, y cómo el compromiso real se nota en la consistencia, la claridad y los hechos. Este episodio te ayuda a dejar de esperar, dejar de descifrar excusas y empezar a reconocer cuándo alguien te está eligiendo de verdad.
13. When He Commits (And When He Doesn’t) “This is what changes everything.
37:42||Season 6, Ep. 13In this episode of Love Hacks, we break down what actually makes someone commit — and what doesn’t. We talk about the difference between interest and intention, why mixed signals aren’t confusion but information, and how real commitment shows up through consistency, clarity, and action. This episode helps you stop waiting, stop decoding excuses, and start recognizing when someone is truly choosing you.
12. 6 signs you’re not in a safe relationship.
42:12||Season 6, Ep. 12n this episode of Love Hacks, we break down the difference between “intense love” and a relationship that simply isn’t safe for you. We explore how control, isolation, love bombing and emotional dependence slowly show up, and why your body often notices it before you do. This conversation is an invitation to trust your discomfort, recognize unhealthy patterns, and remember that wanting safety and peace in love is not “asking for too much”.
11. Do Not Make this Mistake: Stop Disappearing Just Because You Caught Feelings.
35:40||Season 6, Ep. 11You know that moment when you really like someone… and suddenly everything starts to revolve around them?You cancel plans, you hold back your truth, you ignore the red flags — just to keep the connection alive.In today’s episode of Love Hacks we’re talking about how to like someone without abandoning yourself.”
10. If He Pulls Away, Read This: The Truth About “No Contact” Texts
44:20||Season 6, Ep. 10When someone pulls away, it’s easy to panic and think: “If I try harder, they’ll come back.”In this episode we break down why that instinct can be so dangerous, what “no contact tests” really are, and what someone’s distance is actually telling you about how they see you.We talk about the difference between normal confusion and patterns that start to feel like psychological abuse, and why it’s so important not to romanticize behaviour that makes you feel small, anxious or like you’re going crazy. We also share a raw moment between us on air — and a post-episode clarification — about why saying “he’s a narcissist sometimes” completely misses the point.If you’ve ever chased someone who was half-in, half-out, this one is for you.
9. Still Thinking About Your Ex? This Will Break The Cycle
47:03||Season 6, Ep. 9Are you wondering if that person is actually interested in you?In this episode of Love Hacks, we break down the real signals —not the romanticized ones— that show whether someone is emotionally available or if you’re just projecting what you want to believe.Using insights from relationship experts, we explore: • Why we confuse attention with intention • How your mind creates stories when you’re anxious or attached • Clear signs of disinterest (even when they hurt) • Consistent behaviors that DO indicate genuine interest • How to stop obsessing over someone who isn’t choosing youWe also dive into how the “version of yourself with that person” can mislead you, and why reclaiming your energy, identity, and personal power changes everything in your relationships.You’ll walk away with practical steps to make decisions from clarity — not illusion.If you’re tired of misreading signals, this episode will give you freedom, perspective, and peace of mind.Love Hacks — real conversations about love, connection, and everything in between.Now available in English, Español, Français — and coming soon in Português.
8. How To Raise Your Standards — He Texts When He's Bored, Not When He Cares
35:23||Season 6, Ep. 8Sometimes we confuse effort with connection. We think that if we give more, they’ll finally see our worth, but all it does is highlight the imbalance.In this episode, we talk about what it means tPortuguêsplaceholder girl: the one who gives, waits, and hopes… while someone else keeps her on pause.And most importantly — how to raise your standards without closing your heart. Because love isn’t about proving your value. It’s about remembering it. 🎙️ Love Hacks — real conversations about love, connection, and everything in between. Now available in English, Español, Français — and coming soon in Português
6. When Love Feels Like Manipulation: Life With or After a Narcissist
46:39||Season 6, Ep. 6There’s a kind of love that leaves you empty, because it was never love, it was control disguised as care.Narcissists don’t fall in love with you.They fall in love with how you make them feel, powerful, admired, irreplaceable. And when that mirror breaks… they leave. But healing begins when you stop asking why they did it and start asking why you stayed.