Living on the Virg Podcast

While Virginia takes a little time away to enjoy life as it’s happening, she’s opening the Virg Vault and returning to Episode 100—a milestone conversation about how Living on the Virg changed as she changed.The podcast began with Bravo, pop culture, travel and plenty of opinions. Over its first 100 episodes, it gradually became something broader: a place for honest conversations about friendship, family, reinvention, slowing down and paying attention to real life.In this Rewind, you’ll hear the original Episode 100 exactly as it was released, followed by a new reflection on what came next—and why growth does not always mean becoming someone different. Sometimes it means becoming more fully yourself.Originally published February 18, 2026. The archival episode audio is preserved exactly as originally released.What have you enjoyed most about the evolution of Living on the Virg—and what do you hope Virginia explores next?00:00Rewind on the Virg opening00:36Why Episode 100 is worth revisiting now01:19Original Episode 100 begins31:18New reflection: what came next

I recorded this before Lori Krebs became part of the headline—and now the episode sounds completely different.Before the recent pictures from Mexico, before the questions surrounding Jax Taylor and Brittany Cartwright’s longtime publicist, and before The Valley entered another complicated chapter, I spent an evening inside Jax’s Studio City for The Valley season-premiere watch party.I met people, watched members of the cast react in real time and documented the evening exactly as I experienced it. I wasn’t predicting the future or searching for clues. I was simply sharing what I saw, heard and felt as someone who was actually in the room.For Episode 137, I’m reopening the Virg Vault and replaying that original episode exactly as it aired. Nothing has been changed to make the past fit what we know today.In a new introduction and reflection, I discuss the recent Lori K. headlines, Brittany’s public response and the important difference between documented information and online assumptions. Jax and Lori have not publicly explained the complete history or timeline of their relationship.Podcasts can become little time capsules—and hindsight has a way of changing what we hear.Did the recent developments change how you heard any of these moments?Chapters00:00 — Welcome to Rewind on the Virg00:37 — Why the Lori K. headlines brought me back02:20 — What I knew then versus what we know now04:03 — The original Episode 10 begins04:29 — Arriving at Jax’s Studio City06:38 — Mima’s beer cheese is crossed off the menu08:00 — The room begins filling up19:00 — Watching The Valley premiere with the cast01:04:05 — What the episode sounds like today01:06:05 — The question I have for listenersFollow Living on the Virg and share this episode with your Bravo-loving friends.Instagram: @livingonthevirgpodcasts#LivingOnTheVirg #RewindOnTheVirg #JaxTaylor #BrittanyCartwright #LoriKrebs #TheValley #BravoTV #BravoFans #RealityTV #RealityTVPodcastFact-Check ReferencesPeople: https://people.com/brittany-cartwright-upset-photos-jax-taylor-former-publicist-romance-source-exclusive-12019309Page Six: https://pagesix.com/2026/07/18/celebrity-news/brittany-cartwright-reacts-to-ex-jax-taylors-romance-with-publicist-lori-krebs/

It’s been a relatively quiet week—but there has still been plenty tucked inside it.Virginia shares her search for a special birthday dress, the requirements that matter now, and why she wants the experience to feel fun instead of like another mission. She also confesses to a complicated relationship with Lilly Pulitzer, considers whether “marinating” on a very full shopping cart counts as restraint, and realizes she may have expected one pair of tennis shoes to perform far too many jobs.Then it’s time for reality television: Rebecca and Zied’s explosive communication on 90 Day: The Last Resort, the Love Island USA Season 8 finale, and which couples Virginia hopes will survive outside the villa.Finally, Virginia previews the upcoming Vine Van tour and explains why she’s taking a little time away—to celebrate, enjoy turning 60, and experience this meaningful stretch of life before trying to package it.In this episodeSelf-care without turning it into another projectMeeting a woman beginning a new chapter after 40 years of marriageThe requirements for Virginia’s special birthday dressThe wonder of shopping in a local boutiqueA love-hate relationship with Lilly Pulitzer“Restraint with a loophole”Walking shoes versus gym and travel shoesWhy Emily Simpson signed Virginia’s HokasRebecca and Zied on 90 Day: The Last ResortLove Island USA Season 8 finale reactionsA preview of the upcoming Vine Van tourThe two episodes returning from the Virg VaultChoosing to live an experience before turning it into content#LivingOnTheVirg #LifeLately #Turning60 #BirthdayDress #SelfCare #LillyPulitzer #WomenOver50 #Hoka #BravoCon #90DayFiance #TheLastResort #LoveIslandUSA #TemeculaWineCountry #VineVanTour #RealityTVPodcast

Virginia reflects on what "putting yourself first" has come to mean in her own life, discovering that it's less about selfishness and more about paying attention—to her body, emotions, faith, relationships, and what truly matters. She shares the quiet shifts that have brought more peace, intention, and clarity to everyday life.This week I've been thinking about one question:What does putting yourself first actually mean?For a long time, I thought it meant choosing myself over everyone else. Lately, I've realized it's something much quieter than that.It's learning to pay attention.To listen when my body is asking for rest—or movement.To notice my emotions without immediately trying to fix them.To ask what really matters today instead of trying to do everything.And maybe the biggest lesson of all: listening is only half the equation. Responding is the part that changes your life.Whether you're building a career, raising a family, caring for aging parents, starting over, or simply trying to create a little more peace in your days, I hope this conversation encourages you to slow down long enough to hear what you've been trying to tell yourself all along.#LivingOnTheVirg#PersonalGrowth#SelfCare#IntentionalLiving#Mindset#LifeLessons#SelfAwareness#putyourselffirst

Some weeks teach you lessons in places you never expected.This week I'm sharing a little bit of everything—from realizing I'm finally getting stronger in the gym to finally trying on the dress I'd been thinking about for months (and discovering it wasn't the dress that mattered after all).We'll also catch up on family, brunch with my daughters-in-love, the Temecula Business Woman Connection, my thoughts on Real Housewives of Orange County, the latest Tom Sandoval drama, and why I'm so excited for an upcoming Vine Van Tour through Temecula Wine Country.Plus, I'm giving you a preview of Tuesday's episode about what "putting yourself first" has really come to mean in my own life.Grab your coffee—or your wine—and let's catch up.Episode SummaryIn Episode 134 of Living on the Virg, Virginia reflects on:• Getting stronger at the gym and learning smarter strength training• Why consistency beats exhaustion• Finally trying on "the dress" that had lived rent-free in her mind• Meaningful conversations with the Temecula Business Woman Connection• Fourth of July with family• Brunch with her daughters-in-love• RHOC Season 20 premiere watch party• Tom Sandoval, Victoria and a surprising look back at meeting them• GBV Winery's new Cabernet Sauvignon• Upcoming Vine Van Tour• A preview of Tuesday's episode about putting yourself first#LivingOnTheVirg#WomenOver50#HealthyAging#Midlife#StrengthTraining#BravoTV#RHOC#WineCountry#Temecula#Podcast#WomenSupportingWomen#LifestylePodcast#FitnessJourney#Menopause#WinosOnTheVirg

Have you ever replayed a conversation in your head before it even happened? Filled in the blanks? Assumed the ending before you knew the facts?This week, I realized just how often we do that.In this episode, I share three very different conversations—from a family meeting about my mom's dementia, to questioning a friendship, to thinking about future conversations with my own children—and how each one taught me the exact same lesson.Sometimes the hardest part isn't the conversation.It's the story we create while we're avoiding it.If you've ever lost sleep over something that hadn't even happened yet, this episode is for you.Key TakeawaysWhy our brains naturally create stories when we don't have enough information.The surprising peace that can come from difficult conversations.How assumptions often create more stress than reality.A simple question that can stop anxiety before it spirals.Why facts and stories are rarely the same thing.#LivingOnTheVirg #Conversations #PersonalGrowth #SelfReflection #Mindset #Relationships #MentalWellness #Communication #LifeLessons #Podcast

As America celebrates its 250th birthday, I'm reflecting on one of my favorite childhood memories—attending the 1976 Bicentennial celebration at the Los Angeles Coliseum as a ten-year-old. That trip down memory lane leads to everything from the documentaries I've been binge-watching to Amazon Prime purchases I didn't keep, why my robot vacuum "Rosie" may be the best purchase I've ever made, and how I'm trying to be a little less impulsive these days.Then we're diving into Reality on the Virg with my latest thoughts on The Valley and The Real Housewives of Rhode Island, before switching gears for Travel on the Virg, where I need your help planning California road trips beginning in Santa Barbara.Finally, it's time for Winos on the Virg, where I'm comparing three popular Temecula wine club memberships and sharing which perks might make each one worth joining.If you have favorite wineries, restaurants, hidden beaches, or unforgettable California experiences, I'd love to hear from you. This is just the beginning of exploring our own backyard together.TakeawaysWhy America's 250th birthday sparked a childhood memory I'll never forget.How documentaries can reconnect us with history.Why "return day" feels like payday.The unexpected purchase that completely changed my weekly routine.My latest Bravo thoughts on The Valley and RHORI.A new listener-powered California travel series begins.Comparing three Temecula wine club memberships.Call to ActionI'd love your help planning future California adventures! Send me your favorite wineries, restaurants, hotels, scenic drives, beaches, and hidden gems anywhere from Santa Barbara to Northern California. Your recommendation may be featured in a future episode of Living on the Virg.#LivingOnTheVirg #Podcast #California #RoadTrip #SantaBarbara #TemeculaWineCountry #WineClub #BravoTV #TheValley #RHORI #History #FourthOfJuly #America250 #LifestylePodcast

This week we're simply catching up.Life has been surprisingly quiet lately, and instead of rushing to fill every minute, I've found myself enjoying the slower pace.In this Friday episode I'm sharing what's been working lately—from cooking at home, getting consistent with the gym, simplifying my health routine, staying on top of our budget, and finally realizing that not every project has to become an all-day event.Then we're heading back to Old San Juan, Puerto Rico for more travel stories, catching up on my latest reality TV obsessions, and wrapping up with a fantastic Elton John tribute concert at Europa Village.Sometimes the best weeks aren't the busiest ones.What You'll Hear in This Episode• Why quiet weeks have become some of my favorite weeks• Health & wellness update (Down 5 lbs and counting!)• My new grocery shopping challenge that's saving money and making meals more fun• Learning to simplify my fitness and nutrition routine• The 30-minute pantry reset that taught me a bigger lesson• What surprised me most about Old San Juan, Puerto Rico• Reality TV roundup: Love Island, 90 Day Fiancé & The Last Resort• Winos on the Virg: Elton John Tribute at Europa VillageTakeawaySometimes life doesn't need to be exciting to be meaningful.There's something deeply satisfying about getting your routines in place, enjoying your own company, and discovering that contentment often lives in the ordinary moments.#LivingOnTheVirg#LifeLately#LifestylePodcast#WomenOver50#HealthyLiving#WeightLossJourney#PuertoRico#OldSanJuan#RealityTV#LoveIsland#90DayFiance#TravelPodcast#TemeculaWineCountry#WineLife#PersonalGrowth#PodcastLife#EverydayLife#WomenOver60#Midlife#FridayVibes