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Living in Paradox

Paradox in Relationship- Part 1

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Welcome to the Living in Paradox Podcast!


Paradox in Relationship- Part 1    30:33


We join relationship coach Larry Byram in a discussion and exploration of defensive differences, co-creativity, vulnerability and intimacy as they relate to our relationship dynamics. How can we take the conflicts that arise in our partnership, our working relationships and with ourselves as opportunities for increased compassion and growth?


Larry has spent the last 40 years researching these questions (and so much more) and creating classes and coaching that support us in diving deep into the heart of the matter to find our creative essence and how best to connect and create with others. This material is concentrated and intuitive and will push the envelope of how you think relationships function best.


Join us for the conclusion of this conversation in Episode 4.  Paradox in Relationship- Part 2.


In This Episode, You Will Learn:

  • What makes a relationship great? (4:59)
  • What do you notice about a person right away? How are they showing up energetically? (6:03)
  • Being surprised in relationship, focusing on creative growth vs control. (8:25)
  • Finding Common Ground in our perspectives (13:06)
  • Where is there relationship conflict and what can we do to turn it around? (16:44)
  • Are we caught in personality perspectives? (18:30)
  • About experiential modalities: sensations, feelings, emotions and thoughts, each with their own frequency and way of knowing. (22:14)
  • The search for what is wrong with us. (24:30)
  • About creative modalities: Intuition, Direct Knowing and Unity Thinking. (27:38)


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