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Literally, Boyfriends with Justin & Jason

Season 1, Ep. 21

Your hosts have been “in-between boyfriends” since 20$&**(redacted). For years, we’ve assembled Blue Apron dinners alone, snapping IG stories of our dominant fap hand on National Boyfriend Day. Yet boy relationships is our most-requested listener topic! So we welcome fiancés/friends Justin and Jason to show us what one queer relationship looks like in 2023. We learn that you can find true love on Grindr. That open relationship evolve. And navigating parents, hookups, and the community as a mixed-race couple comes with funny stories and heartbreak. Plus, how to use Sniffies to cruise HMart and a Folsom apology from Chris.


Follow us at @literallygaysians on Instagram and TikTok.

Hosted and produced by Bao Nguyen (@baobaobaozer) and Chris Young (@meatmesouthofmarket.gif)

Music by Adam Baker (@adamibaker)

Key art by Chris Young

Email: literallygaysians@gmail.com

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