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Could you be a daddy? Literally, the Fatherhood episode with dads Ed Center & Bobby Lee
Season 1, Ep. 15
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On Father’s Day, we asked ourselves, “could we be dads?” So we invited two real-life gaysian dads to explore fatherhood. Ed Center (@villagewellparenting) and Bobby Lee (@leeland15) join us to chat about their path to fatherhood: when they knew they were ready, intergenerational family drama and trauma, lots of internal struggle, and how they made it all happen through adoption and surrogacy. We get real about a tragic loss Chris is going through, then wrap up with a hilarious game of “Dad or Daddy?” Be ready to cringe - you’re about to enter dad jokes galore!
Follow us at @literallygaysians on Instagram and TikTok.
Hosted and produced by Bao Nguyen (@baobaobaozer) and Chris Young (@meatmesouthofmarket.gif)
Edited by Bao Nguyen
Key art by Chris Young
Music by Adam Baker (@adamibaker)
Email: literallygaysians@gmail.com
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