Lessons Learned Soul Tribe

Welcome to Lessons Learned Soul Tribe. Today, we're going to talk about Codependency.  This comes from childhood dynamics and childhood dysfunction whether you were expected to be an adult too early or you didn't get your needs met as a child, it sets the tone for seeking validation outside of yourself which is really one of the key aspects of  Codependency.  In my life I was expected to be an adult early in my life as well as having other things happen in my life that set the tone for this.  When I was almost 12, I was staying with my grandmother for the summer and my Grandfather had just come home from the hospital where he had pneumonia. He was recovering at home, my grandmother had to go to work and so he had asked me to make him some soup for lunch.  I made it and  I brought it out but because it was too hot, I set it on the table and then a few minutes later I went to go check on him to see if he was OK and he had died and I was the only one there with him.  This situation really set the tone for me in with this desire to fix the world because I had let my Grandfather down. I had taken the blame for what happened with my grandfather. It also led to the dynamics in relationships with me giving away my power! The moment I fell in love with somebody somehow, they had all power and I had none.  It led to a lot of toxic types of relationships and drew a lot of negative situations because I didn't understand them dynamics behind these situations. Also, as a parent I gave a lot and I would get angry if I didn't get the respect, I had this righteous kind of anger  because I didn't get a thank you and  I’m feeling here I am I'm giving away everything but I'm getting nothing turn in my eyes! So really take a look at the dynamics of codependency because it is something for everyone will evaluate in their lives. If you feel like you codependent you have to take your power back. You have to heal your 2nd ,3rd and 4th chakras and step back into power! If  you'd like to reach out to me, please contact me at LadyT777731@gmail.com. 

Much Love and Light!

Lady T