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Leaving Eden Podcast

Abusive Relationships and Cults

Season 2, Ep. 15

Sadie takes us through the BITE model and discusses how cult control looks in an abusive relationship and how similar it is to Christian Fundamentalism.


00:00 - Intro

08:00 - Why are cults like abusive relationships?

12:27 - Behavior Control

17:30 - Written and unwritten rules

31:03 - Information Control

46:00 - Thought Control

52:48 - Emotion Control

59:00 - Queer Relationships

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