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The Hidden Cost of Success: What Matters More Than Achievement?

Season 3, Ep. 82
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Episode 82 | The Hidden Cost of Success: What Matters More Than Achievement?


What will matter most when you look back on your life at 85? I'm joined by Yasmeen Lari, Pakistan's first female architect, for an extraordinary conversation about ambition, motherhood, success, and the things we sometimes sacrifice while trying to prove ourselves. After reaching the top of her profession, Yasmeen shifted her life's work toward humanitarian architecture and empowering women in underserved communities. She shares what she's learned about ego, the cost of career success, raising children, and finding deeper purpose through service. This is a conversation for every woman wondering how to use her gifts without losing sight of what matters most.


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Topics & Timestamps

00:00 - What Makes Life Successful?

05:53 - The Ego Behind Ambition

09:36 - Faith, Family, and Identity

14:04 - Motherhood and Career Sacrifices

18:25 - Recognizing the Cost of Ego

26:00 - Finding Purpose Through Service

35:12 - One Million Stoves, Changed Lives

41:14 - Redefining Success and Legacy

47:16 - What Matters Most Now?


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