DADs for Life - Kopi, Kids and Kakis

Edwin Choy, co-founder of the Centre for Fathering, shares how his personal journey shaped his approach to fatherhood. He reflects on past mistakes and the importance of being present, accountable and emotionally open as a dad. From supporting incarcerated fathers to helping dual-income families, Edwin highlights the evolving role of fathers today. He also speaks candidly about how support from his wife helped him balance family life and his calling. Tune in for inspiring stories of transformation and why fathering is a lifelong journey. This episode is a heartfelt reminder of the power fathers have to shape future generations.

In this heartfelt episode, stay-at-home dad Josiah Ng shares his journey of parenting and the importance of nurturing emotional literacy in families. He reflects on the challenges of expressing emotions and how parents can create safe spaces for their children to open up.Josiah and host Alsen offer practical strategies like sportscasting, breathing exercises, and storytelling to help children build emotional resilience. They also discuss how modeling emotional regulation and offering sincere apologies strengthen family bonds.Drawing from personal experiences, Josiah highlights how a parent’s own upbringing influences their connection with their children. No matter where you are in your parenting journey, this conversation offers relatable insights to help you foster emotional awareness at home.

Join host Alsen on Kopi Kids and Kakis as he chats with Ee Jay, a counselor and digital parenting pro, about how to raise tech-savvy kids without losing the family bond. From screen time struggles to online safety, they dive deep into real challenges and practical tips. Discover how role modeling, emotional regulation, and digital detoxes can transform your home. If you’re a parent trying to navigate the digital maze, this one’s a must-listen—insightful, relatable, and packed with game-changing advice.Tune in and take back control of tech in your family! 

In this heartwarming episode, Raymond Koh, co-founder of the Center for Fathering, joins host Alsen to explore the power of family meals in strengthening bonds and fostering open communication. They discuss how parents can create a welcoming environment at the dinner table, navigate technology distractions, and engage children in meaningful conversations. Raymond shares practical tips on setting boundaries, using humor to ease tough discussions, and turning mealtime into a cherished family tradition. Tune in for insightful strategies to transform your family table into a space for deeper connection and lasting memories!

In this special crossover episode, Alsen Chanamuto from The Kopi, Kids, and Kakis Podcast teams up with Alvina Chin from The Deconstructed Mum to explore the complexities of marriage and parenting. Join them as they candidly share their journeys, offering perspectives on the adjustments couples face while transitioning into married life and parenthood. Together, they share how they’ve learned to embrace, appreciate, and navigate differences, making for an insightful and relatable conversation.

In this episode of the Kopi Kids and Kakis podcast, Alsen sits down with Burt Peh to dive into the rollercoaster ride of parenting teenagers. Together, they unpack the challenges and joys of raising teens, focusing on the power of communication, compassion, and adaptability. As a father of three teenagers, Burt shares personal insights on building strong bonds with children from an early age and adjusting parenting strategies as they grow. They also discuss the importance of setting boundaries collaboratively and creating a safe, supportive environment for teens to thrive. This heartfelt conversation reminds us that parenting is a journey of mutual learning and growth, with compassion at its core.