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Bonnie, Charlotte (Shari), Hazel + Luke: After My First Unplanned Homebirth, I Never Looked Back

Season 1, Ep. 256

This episode of Kiwi Birth Tales is proudly brought to you by Your Birth Project.


In this episode of Kiwi Birth Tales, I speak to Bonnie. Some of the topics we cover:


  • Unplanned homebirth
  • Birth Trauma + Empowering feelings
  • Close age gap
  • Planned homebirths
  • Homebirth Canterbury organisation
  • Preparing for birth at home
  • Breastfeeding journey and challenges
  • Large families and parents experience with birth
  • Kids at birth VS not


Your Birth Project Online Hypnobirthing Course

https://www.fertilityassociates.co.nz/book-a-free-nurse-consult


Please seek support for any mental health concerns, some helpful links are below:

Mental Health in Pregnancy

Perinatal Depression and Anxiety Aotearoa

Plunket - Dads Mental Health

Little Shadow - Private Counselling NZ


Find me @kiwibirthtales and @yourbirthproject

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