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Ep90: Carmen, Rosie, Asher, Jude & Taj - Fertility Journey, PCOS, Breech C-Section, Twin VBAC, Singleton VBAC
As you can see from the title of this episode, number 90 is a packed one! Carmen talks us through her 3 pregnancy and birth stories with her 4 babies! Carmen and her Husband worked through a fertility struggle with PCOS, eventually using Clomophine and falling pregnant after 3 rounds - Rosie was Breech right up to her birth and ended up being a C-Section birth so Carmen talks us through that along with everything else involved in becoming a Mum.
Carmen then talks through falling pregnancy with Twins, her decision to try for a VBAC and her successful VBAC birth, learning life with twins and much more.
Carmen then talks through falling pregnant with Taj, her experience juggling family, work and pregnancy and then her vaginal birth.
This is a lovely episode and Carmen is such a gem, I know you're going to enjoy listening to her. She is also a Midwife and it's awesome hearing things from her professional perspective at times too.
Thanks for joining me Carmen!
This episode is sponsored by the Motherness Podcast, a beautiful, empowering podcast created by Kiwi Mum Skye Ross. I would love for you to show her support over at @Motherness.podcast on Instagram or find the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you like to listen.
Thanks for listening!
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