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E070: Frankie Lee Monaghan - Yellow Belt
Frankie Lee Monaghan is a Yellow Belt, and joins me with her Dad, Kevin. Frankie shares her lack of confidence before starting Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, and the challenges with being bullied. It wasn't until a School Sports Week that Frankie was introduced to Jiu Jitsu, that her life changed for the better.
Kevin her Dad, echoes Frankie's resilience and tenacity for life, as well as the heartbreaking story of noticing Frankie's sadness during the period of bullying at school. Frankie now has high ambition, and big goals for her growth in Jiu Jitsu, travelling the world gaining more medals and achievements at every belt level.
Topics:
- Being bullied
- Lack of confidence
- School Sports Week
- Single Leg Takedowns
- Role Models
- Super Fights
- Confidence
- Dreams
- Goals
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