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Japa Diaries Podcast
The Real Cost of Making It Abroad
Season 5, Ep. 5
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You made it abroad, now everyone needs something from you đ
Fritz joins us for a very real conversation about black tax, family expectations, and the pressure that can come with being âthe one who made it.â He shares his journey from Ghana to the U.S., from a full-ride scholarship and multiple campus jobs to building a career in software engineering.
We get into sending money home, guilt, boundaries, and what changes when you start building a family of your own. Because making it abroad is one thing. Figuring out how much of that success youâre actually allowed to keep? Thatâs another conversation.
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