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Interview with a schizophrenic

Kendra - A discussion about sex & porn addiction

Season 3

Today we welcome Kendra, a therapist dealing with relationship issues due to Sex & Porn addiction. I feel this is increasingly relevant today, given its impact on the mental health of the global community. Kendra is based in North Carolina.


#Sex #Porn #Addiction


thehealinghearttherapycenter.com


Music: Prime Time - Martin Klem


00:00:32: Introduction to the episode

00:00:35: Welcoming Kendra

00:00:38: Introducing Kendra's specialization

00:00:44: Clarifying the episode's focus

00:00:55: Discussion on sex and porn addiction's relevance

00:01:07: Kendra and Duncan exchange greetings

00:01:16: Weather conversation

00:03:04: Moving to Scotland and its weather

00:03:05: Kendra explains her profession and reason for contact

00:04:56: Effects of sex and porn addiction on mental health

00:05:40: Young generations and social skills

00:07:19: Impact of the pandemic on younger generations

00:10:05: Continuing challenges post-pandemic

00:10:56: Society’s pressure to remain youthful

00:12:08: Embracing individuality in modern society

00:14:13: Link between sex and porn addiction and mental health

00:15:06: Factors contributing to unhealthy sexual behaviors

00:17:45: Understanding normal sexuality over a lifespan

00:19:46: Societal judgments on sexuality

00:20:16: Schizophrenia’s impact on relationships

00:21:01: Kendra discusses her daughter’s mental health diagnoses

00:22:27: Supporting and advocating for individuals with mental health struggles

00:22:41: The unique gifts of those with mental health challenges

00:23:11: The experience of being a service user

00:23:38: Connecting with people with mental health conditions

00:24:04: The need for love and understanding for disabled individuals

00:24:48: The impact of societal norms on mental health

00:25:16: Self-acceptance and self-love

00:26:12: The influence of pornography on society

00:28:40: The fantasy world of pornography

00:29:56: Developing healthy coping skills

00:30:52: The taboos around sex and pornography

00:34:17: The isolation and disconnection tied to sex addiction

00:35:02: Recreational sex and its consequences

00:37:16: The effect of recreational sex on intimate relationships

00:38:14: Conclusion and invitation to return to the podcast

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