it's not just you

are we all secretly mean girls?! 👀 gossip happens ALL the time but when does a bit of tea turn into something more harmful? this week, we're asking ourselves some uncomfortable questions about why we gossip, what it says about us, and whether we actually have anything to talk about besides other people… 🫣

everyone tells you freshers is going to be the best time ever, but no one really talks about what happens when it isn’t 🥺 today we’re chatting friendships, nights out, homesickness, feeling like everyone else has found their people and everything we wish we’d known before starting uni. basically, if you’ve started uni and you're not loving it – listen to this one 💛

have you ever realised that someone is your best friend… but you’re not theirs? maybe you’re always the one reaching out, you feel like you’re putting more into the friendship, or you’ve realised they have someone else they’d choose first. and even if no one has done anything wrong, it can still really hurt 🤕💔 can a friendship still be meaningful if it isn’t perfectly equal? if you’ve ever wondered, “am i actually as important to them as they are to me?” – this one’s for you 🫶

can guys and girls really just be friends? this week we're talking about the messy grey areas of male-female friendships. how do you have healthy boundaries? when is a friendship is getting a little too close? what about navigating guy friendships when you’re in a relationship?! you asked, so we delivered (hopefully!)...

it can be so easy to feel like we’re waiting for the next thing to happen before life can really begin. a relationship, a career takeoff, a friendship group, a house BUT what if the life you’ve longed for is actually hidden in the life you have?! today we're talking about how to be content. rach shares a load of thoughts she's been having off the back of reading joshua luke smith's brillaint book: this is the main event. What if THIS is the main event?

all the things we wish we'd known before getting into your first relationship 😳

friendship in your 20s can feel exhausting. your time is stretched, everyone's busy and having an hour coffee catch-up with a friend can actually just end up feeling draining. how do we do friendship well when we're no longer at school or uni living in proximity to our friends?! how do we balance catching-up with creating new memories!?

you know when your friend says “no it’s fine” but you know it’s absolutely not fine lol. this week we’re chatting all things passive aggression in friendship. from the subtle digs to saying nothing when you’re actually very annoyed — why do we do it, and what’s the healthier way to handle conflict with our friends? lets get into it 🫣