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Episode Two - It Started With a Heatwave… and Got Surprisingly Deep | It’s Probably Fine
It Started With a Heatwave… and Got Surprisingly Deep
What began as a conversation about heatwaves, swollen train lines and school closures quickly became something much bigger.
In this episode of It’s Probably Fine, Lucy and Jemma explore how seemingly simple decisions often have unexpected consequences. From the proposed UK social media ban and digital wellbeing to safeguarding, domestic abuse, digital identity and the responsibilities of employers, this is an honest conversation about the complexity of risk in today’s world.
Along the way we discuss:
- Why schools really close during extreme weather
- The proposed UK social media ban for under-16s
- Whether banning social media tackles the real problem
- Digital wellbeing, digital literacy and parenting in an online world
- Digital identity, privacy and trust
- The hidden decisions leaders make every day
- The links between major sporting events and domestic abuse
- Safeguarding responsibilities for organisations and employers
- Why good decision-making is about people, not just policies
Content warning: This episode contains discussion of suicide, self-harm, eating disorders, domestic abuse, child safeguarding and mental health. Please listen with care.
If you or someone you know has been affected by any of the issues discussed, support is available:
• Samaritans – Free, confidential support 24 hours a day for anyone struggling or in emotional distress. Call 116 123 or visit https://www.samaritans.org
• Refuge – Support for women experiencing domestic abuse, including the National Domestic Abuse Helpline. Call 0808 2000 247 or visit https://www.refuge.org.uk
• Papyrus HOPELINE247 – Suicide prevention support for children, young people under 35 and those worried about them. Call 0800 068 4141, text 88247, or visit https://www.papyrus-uk.org
• Childline – Free, confidential support for anyone under 19. Call 0800 1111 or visit https://www.childline.org.uk
• YoungMinds – Information and support for young people’s mental health and advice for parents and carers. Visit https://www.youngminds.org.uk
• NSPCC – Advice on online safety, safeguarding and protecting children. Visit https://www.nspcc.org.uk
• The Mix – Free support for under-25s covering mental health, relationships, work, housing and more. Visit https://www.themix.org.uk
If someone is in immediate danger or you believe a child or vulnerable adult is at immediate risk of serious harm, call 999.
It’s Probably Fine is the podcast where business leaders, experts and consultants share what really happens when things go wrong - and what we can all learn from the decisions made under pressure.
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1. Episode One - The Origin Story
57:06||Season 1, Ep. 1Episode 1: “It’s Probably Fine” — The Decid:R Origin StoryLucy and Jemma, founders of Decider Live, introduce their new podcast “It’s Probably Fine,” where business leaders and consultants share what happened when crises hit and decisions mattered. They discuss their backgrounds—Jemma’s work running Culture Gem in cybersecurity and her experience during the 2017 WannaCry outbreak, and Lucy’s change-management focus through Inclusive Change with expertise in neurodiversity plus many years in law enforcement, including customs and the National Crime Agency. They explain how Decid:R, a crisis resilience and decision-making simulation platform, grew from their early conversations and a first meeting marked by de-escalating an incident involving a homeless man and trainee hairdressers. They explore decision-making under uncertainty and reflect on fight/flight/freeze responses, and invite listeners to get in touch to share crisis stories, directing them to Decid:R Live for more information.To apply to be a guest visit: https://inclusivechange.co.uk/probably-fine-podcast-page00:00 It’s Probably Fine Intro00:50 Meet The Hosts01:43 Lucy Loves Podcasting03:14 Back To Episode One04:27 Who Are You Really06:11 Jemma Cybersecurity Journey09:33 Lucy Change And Law16:25 Why Start This Podcast18:10 DecidR Origin Story19:46 Harborside Haircut Crisis24:01 Nicknames And Sausage Lady27:40 Sausage Lady Nickname28:29 Why Its Probably Fine29:49 2020 Shop Opens Fast32:58 Pandemic Decisions Evidence35:33 Early Remote Work Prep37:09 Toilet Roll Therapy Detour38:48 Sales Pitch Or Stories42:11 Fears Fight Flight Freeze44:18 Personal Crisis Reactions49:17 DecidR Team Dynamics52:51 Wrap Up And Get In Touch
Trailer - It's probably fine
02:01|HEvery business owner has said it. "It'll probably be fine."It's usually not fine.Probably Fine is a podcast about real crisis stories from business owners and leaders. What actually went wrong. How decisions got made under pressure with incomplete information and no time to think. And what they'd tell their past self.No frameworks. No polished hindsight. Just honest conversation about what leadership and decision-making actually look like when the unexpected happens.Hosted by Lucy and Jemma, co-founders of Decidr Live - a decision-making and crisis resilience platform built for exactly these moments.Find out more about DecidR at decidr.live Apply to join us as a guest - https://inclusivechange.co.uk/probably-fine-podcast-page