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A therapist couple explores and processes their own issues, disproving the misconception that therapists have their shit together and that their relationships are perfect. John Kim, aka The Angry Therapist, is a licensed marriage and family therapist ...
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19. Ep 19 Navigating Growth and Differences
31:23||Season 1, Ep. 19In this episode, we discuss ways to approach communicating your needs and desires with a partner and we also examine our still forming thoughts about balancing feminine and masculine energies through introspection, ownership and self-awareness.Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others.
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18. Ep 18 Examining Ambivalence
30:14||Season 1, Ep. 18In this episode, we record a live Q&A from inside a TAT Lab session. We discuss how self work can sometimes feel like 2 steps forward and 1 step back, and how when ambivalence shows up in ourselves and in relationships we need to examine and act on it. Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others.17. Ep 17 Fantasizing About Others
31:39||Season 1, Ep. 17In this episode, we discuss how fantasy and jealousy can present themselves in relationships and where the line between healthy and not healthy can be drawn for both.Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others.
16. Ep 16 Letters to Our Exes
32:42||Season 1, Ep. 16In this episode, we share letters that we’ve written to our partners of the past. We discuss the lessons gathered from those relationships, how they’ve transcended over time, and how they show up in our partnership today.Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others.
15. Ep 15 Equality in Partnerships
37:42||Season 1, Ep. 15In this episode, we share some exciting news about a new project that we’re working on together and what it’s bringing up for us. We discuss how there tends to be power differentials in relationships and how we can cultivate a dynamic where we’re true partners bringing our own unique things to the table.Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others.
14. Ep 14 Answering Your Questions
25:51||Season 1, Ep. 14In the first of a new series within the podcast, we answer questions submitted by the listeners. We talk through and sometimes disagree on questions around how to not be the toxic one in a relationship, how you can make a relationship with an Avoidant work, the reality of “getting over” a relationship, and when two people’s sexual drives aren’t aligned.Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others.
13. Ep 13 Needs Are a Two-Way Street
25:45||Season 1, Ep. 13An extra hard day of parenting can test your relationship in many ways, especially in terms of having your needs met. Getting your needs met isn’t just about asking for them. Your partner should move toward you as well, especially if you have difficulty expressing your needs. Needs are a two-way street. Let us explain.Please rate and review if you feel like this is valuable and want to help us help others.