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It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
NMF: Surviving a Stinky, Steroid-Fuelled, Manosphere Share-House
Season 8, Ep. 140
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It's two of Abbie's favourite topics for a Nightmare Fuel all in one: horrible share-houses AND insecure manosphere freaks!!! Thoughts and prayers to this chook for surviving six months in that hellscape because WOW. There's sharps at the kitchen bench, no bathroom hygiene practices in sight, and some shocking extra details that leave Abbie speechless.
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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey
Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter
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