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KAYLA JADE RETURNS: Snark Threads, Body Image, and Motherhood

Season 8, Ep. 81
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NOTE: This episode contains discussions of eating disorders, and sexual assault. Please take care while listening, and remember that help is always available. If this content raises any issues for you or someone you know, contact Butterfly at 1800 33 4673 or visit butterfly.org.au, or contact 1800RESPECT at 1800 737 732 or visit 1800respect.org.au.


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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Kayla Jade @itsmekaylajade

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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