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Season 8, Ep. 99
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We've got something a bit different for you! Instead of a Nightmare Fuel, Abbie and Aleks are unpacking an email from a chook who was after some advice about her relationship.
LINKS
- See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen
- Learn more about Aleks Trkulja https://linktr.ee/ThePleasureCentre
- Follow Aleks on IG @_thepleasurecentre
- Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9
- Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram.
- Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review
CREDITS
Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Guest: Aleks Trkulja @_thepleasurecentre
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey
Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter
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