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ADAM & ABBIE: Online Abuse Turned to Real Threats - "We're Going To Bash You"

Season 8, Ep. 6
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For months, Abbie and Adam have endured shocking abuse and harassment from so-called 'trolls' online. While Adam previously did not want to address this and add fuel to the fire unnecessarily, he has changed his mind after two shocking public incidents - one occuring the morning of the Hottest 100. This kind of online abuse has real world consequences, and needs to be called out. 

CW: This episode contains discussions of harassment, verbal abuse, and suicide – as well as references to homophobic slurs. If this content raises any issues for you, help is availablie via Lifeline at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14, and via Beyond
Blue at 1300 224 636 or at www.beyondblue.org.au/.

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Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Guest: Adam Hyde @keliholiday
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
Digital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon 
Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hill
It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey
Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 

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