I Said What I Said

Thank GOD its over! We loved it but my lorddd: what a rollercoaster of a show. Entertaining, shocking, messy! We discussThoughts on each contestant’s behaviour in episode 6-9, with a special mention to Nolla and Khanya’s bizarre behaviourEach couple’s proposalsThe reunion: surprise breakups, growth and dramaOn the full Patreon episode we go on to discuss:Should we judge people by the friends they keep?Being guilty by associationAre armchair diagnoses appropriate?The dangers of dating with low self esteemThe cost of positioning yourself as a tool for people’s growthPunitive justice: what does rehabilitation look like in your personal life?References: Dr Cherie - https://www.youtube.com/@DrCherieTypesInstagram: for podcast content follow iswis_podcast. For memes and tits follow mukundwa_Got thoughts? Send a VoiceNote! https://www.speakpipe.com/iswisPlease leave a review on Apple podcasts or a rating on Spotify (click the 3 dots > Rate Show)

Please DO NOT share with us the outcome of Ep6-10!SPOILERS: discussing Episode 1-5TW - Ab*se and addictionThe Ultimatum SA has us by the pubes! It’s 10/10 and we spend the episode dissecting it. The full 1hr40min discussion is on Patreon.Things we discuss:Nyakwezi gives an update on her tussle with the psychicHolding space for friendship breakupsThe Public humiliation (or efficacy) of dragging your partner onto The UltimatumFirst impressions of the original couplesComplacency and financial issuesInfidelityPossible personality disorders and compulsive liarsThe realities of hypergamy datingAbuse, Manipulation and AddictionSouth Africa’s racial dynamicsPredictions of outcomes for all couplesPlease DO NOT share with us the outcome of Ep6-10!Join the Patreon for 4-5 full length episodes a month: https://patreon.com/iswisInstagram: iswis_podcast + mukundwa_Got thoughts? Send a VoiceNote! https://www.speakpipe.com/iswis

This is one of my favourite episodes to date! I’m joined by the brilliant astrologer wizard Jaliessa Sipress to discuss amorality, the nature of suffering, manifestation and human dualityAmorality and moving away from good/bad and right/wrongManifestation and moving away from mainstream models. Engaging with world suffering and debating the idea of resilienceSocial expectations, fear of judgement and being labelled a “bad” personIs it possible to engage in the suffering of others without becoming consumed by it?Detachment and choosing what to prioritize. The concept of urgencyPart 2 is IMMEDIATELY AVAILABLE over on Patreon! We shift gears and have a blast discussing pop culture:Diddy, celebrity and how abuse is a symbiotic organism in HollywoodAre you really ready to Eat the rich and cancel y’alls faves, Bey included? (NO)Celebrity as a mirror of our own shadow and darknessAndrew Huberman and the expectation of universal morality from the people we admireThe conduct we accept interpersonally vs. from public figuresUnfettered spiritual practice leading to psychosis, the importance of knowing your limitsMore of Jaliessa: https://www.instagram.com/jaliessasipressJoin the Patreon for 4-5 full length episodes a month: https://patreon.com/iswisInstagram: iswis_podcast + mukundwa_Got thoughts? Send a VoiceNote! https://www.speakpipe.com/iswisPlease leave a review on Apple podcasts or a rating on Spotify (click the 3 dots > Rate Show)

I didn’t stutter! On this episode we are graced with Nyak’s presence to discuss all things people pleasing. Is it a tool that helps avoid conflict, or does it actively contribute to it? We read out your juicy people pleaser DMs (thanks for sending them) and discuss polyamory and a dust up with a psychic (oops! everyone pray for us😬). Additionally: Communicating capacity and boundaries in friendshipsCommunication styles over textOverextending oneself and its consequencesHow to communicate the inability to hold spaceAppropriate vs. Inappropriate white liesReferencesInstagram video on communication types: https://t.ly/VukEuJoin the highest Patreon for 4-5 full length episodes a month: https://patreon.com/iswisInstagram: iswis_podcast + mukundwa_Got thoughts? Send a VoiceNote! https://www.speakpipe.com/iswisPlease leave a review on Apple podcasts or a rating on Spotify (click the 3 dots > Rate Show)

Amanda Seales is being unfairly dog-pilled on. When people are cut down because they're honest and direct, what does this say about society at large? If it's unsafe for a successful, effective, beautiful neurotypical woman (I recorded this a week before she shared she was autistic - okay psychic!) to be unflinching in her anti-establishment critiques, what hope is there for the average black autistic woman? This episode dissects bullying dynamics, the price of honesty, Hollywood, blackness and the isolation that comes from being a truth-teller. I discuss:The Unfair Treatment of Amanda Seales and Its Implications on black autistic womenThe Intersection of Autism, Likability, and Professional SuccessBlack Hollywood, oppression, and how bullies thrive in silenceJoin the highest Patreon for 4-5 full length episodes a month: https://patreon.com/iswisInstagram: iswis_podcast + mukundwa_Got thoughts? Send a VoiceNote! https://www.speakpipe.com/iswisPlease leave a review on Apple podcasts or a rating on Spotify (click the 3 dots > Rate Show)

TRIGGER WARNING: S*icideI've been having a hard time making meaning out of life - what with societal collapse, genocides andhustle culture - and wanted to share some conclusions I made about why it is better to stay alive than to opt out. I hope this episode makes you feel seen and a little less alone.Themes discussed:Arguments in favour of staying aliveFinding joy while the world is burningFinding ones place in the worldAutism and justice sensitivity Magic and nature Join the highest Patreon for 4-5 full length episodes a month: https://patreon.com/iswisInstagram: iswis_podcast + mukundwa_Got thoughts? Send a VoiceNote! https://www.speakpipe.com/iswisPlease leave a review on Apple podcasts or a rating on Spotify (click the 3 dots > Rate Show)

WELL HELLO GIRLS AND GAYS! In this episode we’re discussing spiritual growth in 2020 and answering your questions. Blame the Conjuncture for us sounding like cyborgs. Spiritual content: Ask And It is Given, and Money and the Law of Attraction by Abraham Hicks. I STRONGLY RECOMMEND you listen or read to a FULL BOOK for full context and efficacy. https://tinyurl.com/y7gkonty Like this podcast? TIP US!  www.paypal.me/iswispodcast. Our 

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TW mention of Suicide and Sexual Assault. On this episode we discuss themes around George Floyd’s murder. How do we keep spiritually sane and safe in the face of white supremacy. We are taking a hiatus for an undetermined length of time, keep well girls and gays! Like this podcast? TIP US! The COVID-19 FUND IS OVER - all tips will line our bellies with ribs and our fingers with gold.  www.paypal.me/iswispodcast.

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