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The "It's Not A Family Matter" Episode ft. Alexis Adelu Sanya-Kawa and Zulu Anyaogu of Mirabel Centre

Season 8, Ep. 20

This week, the ladies are joined by Alexis Adelu Sanya-Kawa and Zulu Anyaogu from the Mirabel Centre for a very important conversation on sexual assault, domestic violence and survivor advocacy.


As usual, they start the episode with a quick catch-up, dive into a few listener dilemmas, including some exciting updates from previous entries.


Alexis and Zulu then guide us through the incredible work the Mirabel Centre has championed over the last 13 years as a sanctuary for survivors. They break down the institutional gaps in the system, the challenges survivors face when seeking help and healing, and the legislative reforms required to ensure lasting protection and justice.


This is an eye-opening and deeply insightful episode.


Support Mirabel Centre’s amazing work with a donation: https://mirabelcentre.org/donate/ 


Connect with Mirabel Centre: https://mirabelcentre.org/contact-us/  


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