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The "Lagos Dating Playbook" Episode ft. Richie
Season 7, Ep. 21
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The Bounce is joined this week by a long time friend, Richie. Or Richie Rich, as he prefers to be called. The trio deal with some dilemmas about adopted children, extended family relationships and unresolved, unrequited love. And not to toot our own horn, but this week’s episode gives you ✨insight✨ on how to maneuver love, feelings and dating as a young person. So if you don’t have a partner by next week, that’s on you!
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