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Invisible Not Broken - Chronic Illness Podcast Network
Author of “The Girlfriend’s Guide to Lupus”: Amanda Chay
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Monica Michelle is joined by author Amanda Chay.
Amanda lives with Sjögren’s and Lupus.
In this episode, Monica and Amanda discuss:
- Amanda’s book & diagnosis
- Outlooking on work & writing
- Navigating chronic illness with kids & family
00:26 - Intro + The Girlfriend’s Guide to Lupus
02:17 - Amanda’s diagnosis
10:09 - Amanda’s outlook on writing
17:11 - Navigating chronic illness with kids & family
23:29 - Labels and roles
26:24 - Flare reads & closing remarks
The full transcript and all links mentioned can be found on the episode page on invisiblenotbroken.com
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