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In the Kaleidoscope

Episode 15: Redefining Connection: Neurodivergence, Family, and Growth

Season 1, Ep. 15

In the season finale of In the Kaleidoscope, Laura and Carrie reflect on the transformative journey of their podcast. Together, they explore how navigating neurodivergence and neurotypical dynamics has deepened their relationship and reshaped their approach to communication. From challenging conversations to moments of growth, this episode is filled with insights about parenting, mutual accommodation, and the power of vulnerability. Join them as they discuss key lessons on building stronger connections and what it means to truly listen to one another.

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