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Who’s Feeding These Kids?
We’re BACK in real life again and there’s plenty to catch up on!
Bri’s celebrating her birthday very soon, half term is looming, and one mum has reached the end of her cooking for the family tether.
In Let’s Settle This, we’re debating whether kids should have to finish everything on their plate, while Overheard in the Playground gets us talking about contraband at school. Charlie’s also fallen hard for the Skylight Calendar and we hear from a mum who’s somehow become the unofficial childcare provider for her neighbour’s child.
It’s a busy one!
Briony May Williams, Charlie Fuge and Vix Willshire take a precious moment to pause and share the unsung moments, shared struggles and joy of raising tweens and teens. It's your front-row seat to the chaos, laughter and questionable decisions that come with full-on family life — with celebrity guest parents, expert advice, and the gossip you didn't know you needed.
This is real talk: honest conversations on SEND, body image, playground drama, listener dilemmas and the debates every parent's had at least once. Whether you're listening during a quick break or while hiding in the bathroom for a moment of peace (we’ve all been there), I’m Not Judging, But…offers the perfect escape.
I’m Not Judging, But…drops each Thursday. It’s a podcast production by Fin, the Executive Producer is Jojo Strous. You can find us on YouTube @Imnotjudgingbut, Instagram @imnotjudgingbutpod and TikTok @imnotjudgingbutpod.
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4.2. Trick or Treat Rules, Costume Chaos & Rainy Day Ideas 🎃
10:57||Season 4, Ep. 4.2What's that coming over the hill.....why, it's us! Join us, creatures of the night, on this minisode of a Halloween half-term. We discuss practical advice and Halloween Tricks & Treats to make sure your kids are happy and engaged this Spooky Season. We'll see you on the other side, back for our usual service next week!
3. Anna Williamson says Kids Need Manners!
42:15||Season 4, Ep. 3This week, TV Presenter, Relationship Expert and all-round lovely person, Anna Williamson (of LuAnna Podcast fame) joins us for a good old natter about family life, parenting and all the dramas that come with it.We get stuck into a chat about an angry mum voice note in Overheard in the Playground, debate whether kids should have to say hello and goodbye to everyone in Let’s Settle This, and put Anna to the test with some tricky parenting scenarios in What Would Anna Do?She also helps us tackle a listener dilemma about kids who won’t stop fighting. And, of course, we find out Anna’s very own “I’m Not Judging, But…” What’s her parenting ick?You’ll have to listen to find out!You can find us on socials @imnotjudgingbutpod and Anna @annawilliamsonofficial and @everything_luanna
2. The One Where We Can Touch Each Other IRL
31:57||Season 4, Ep. 2For the first time EVER, the girls are recording IRL (in real life) at Briony's House, where they're very excited that they can touch each other. But nothing else has changed as Briony, Charlie and Vix still get into deep discussions about the chaos of modern parenting. They kick off with an interesting debate about whether your child is an ‘in the box’ or ‘out the box’ kid, inspired by Gwyneth Paltrow’s dad’s very specific scale of naughtiness. Then, it’s time for Let’s Settle This: should parents really be friends with their children’s teachers? Plus, Vix has an Overheard in the Playground involving one VERY enthusiastic little eater, and your listener dilemmas tackle periods and chatty parents and one email Briony is convinced might be from Ronan Keating…
1. Is It OK To Let Your Child Win?
35:09||Season 4, Ep. 1We’re BACK! And after our extended summer break, the girls have plenty to catch up on. Briony, Charlie and Vix are back sharing the things that have made them laugh, lose their minds and question everything since we last spoke.Charlie reveals how spider season has officially encroached on her workspace, while Briony introduces a brand-new item to the pod, Let’s Settle This, where the girls have to pick a side on some of parenting’s biggest debates. And this week, they’re tackling the age-old question: is it OK to let your child win at a board game?Plus, Vix empathises with a listener who’s struggling with one of the trickiest parenting relationships of all: setting boundaries with our own parents.Expect honest parenting confessions, plenty of opinions and lots of laughs as I’m Not Judging, But… returns for a brand-new series. As always, absolutely no judgement…well, not much.
Year 2 Trailer
00:35||Season 4, Ep. 0Hi, Not Judgers. Great news, I’m Not Judging, But… is back for Series 4! Same girls. Same podcast. But even more parenting chaos. We'll be bringing you more outrageous confessions, unqualified advice, parenting debates and expressing the thoughts we’re all too scared to say out loud. Tune in from 1st October 2026 to enjoy all the chaos that the new school year brings.
15. I'm Not Judging, But... Between Us
14:05||Season 3, Ep. 15Here's a little bonus episode of our favourite feature, Between You & Me. This episode, we tackle three listener questions and offer our completely unqualified (but very helpful) advice, including trying to help one mum work out how on earth she’s supposed to sort out all the teeth gifted to the Tooth Fairy.Tune in on 1st October for our new series where we share more parenting dilemmas that leave us all wondering, “Am I doing this right?” We’re sharing our thoughts, our experiences and probably a few questionable solutions along the way. Because sometimes you don’t need an expert…you just need a friend who’s willing to listen.
14. I'm Not Judging, But...Unqualified
13:53||Season 3, Ep. 14The summer holidays are officially over and we are slowly returning to a routine. But the stress of getting to that point has been a ride. So, have the wheels fallen off for anyone yet?! In this special back-to-school episode, the girls tackle the highs, lows and chaos of getting everyone back to normality, plus they answer some brilliant listener dilemmas in our favourite unqualified advice section, Between You and Me. This is a little recap from the archives to get you back in the INJB mood, because on 1st October we’re back with a bang and loads of brand-new episodes. Same girls, same podcast, just bigger, better and with plenty more to debate.
13. Dr Punam And The Empty Diary Approach
45:27||Season 3, Ep. 13This week on I'm Not Judging, But... the girls are back with one of their funniest debates yet, after Briony witnesses a full-blown parenting dilemma at 30,000 feet. Were the kids running wild on the plane... or was the grumpy passenger out of line? Then it's time for a brand new game as the girls put their memories to the test with some of the most iconic one-liners from the podcast, before Dr Punam Krishan joins them to share why parents need to stop chasing the "perfect" summer. Her refreshing empty diary approach might just be the permission every mum has been waiting for. 💜You can find us @imnotjudgingbutpodand Dr Punam @drpunamkrishanpodscan_d7hWaJfxXNFcGYilYb1x7UTcPmAPhzPI