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Sweary Toddlers, A 4 Day School Week and Imaginary friends

Season 2, Ep. 2
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On this week’s episode, Briony, Charlie and Vix talk about saying yes more, a decision that’s landed them all in roller skating lessons. It’s Vix’s birthday, and they’re embracing the idea of being a “queenager”, a woman of a certain age who’s firmly come into her own. Alongside the laughs, they dig into parenting pressures, school attendance policies, homeschooling, and the realities of the education system. Plus, there’s plenty of unqualified but heartfelt advice on listener dilemmas, from swearing kids and chaotic imaginary friends to older children refusing to sleep alone.

Briony May Williams, Charlie Fuge and Vix Wilshire have taken a precious moment to pause and share with us the unsung moments, the shared struggles and the joy of Millennial Motherhood. It is your front-row seat to the chaos, laughter and questionable decisions that come with full-on family life.


This is real talk, all the while building a community of like-minded mums who get it. Whether you're listening during a quick break or while hiding in the bathroom for a moment of peace (we’ve all been there), I’m Not Judging, But…offers the perfect escape.


I’m Not Judging, But…drops each Thursday. It’s a podcast production by Fin, the Executive Producer is Jojo Strous. You can find us on YouTube @Imnotjudgingbut, Instagram @imnotjudgingbutpod and TikTok @imnotjudgingbutpod.

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