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I'm Not Judging, But...

Hilary Whitehall

Season 3, Ep. 7

This week the wonderful @hilarywhitehall joined us for a fab chat about being a mum and the joys that come with becoming a Grandmother. Hilary joined our ‘Bristol massive’ (as she named us) and helped answer all the wonderful voice notes we received from Grandparents. What a joy she was to have on. Check it out!


You can find us on Instagram @imnotjudgingbutpod or YouTube youtube.com/imnotjudgingbutpod

And you can find Hilary online @hilarywhitehall and her podcast with husband Michael @thewitteringwhitehalls

Briony May Williams, Charlie Fuge and Vix Wilshire have taken a precious moment to pause and share with us the unsung moments, the shared struggles and the joy of Millennial Motherhood. It is your front-row seat to the chaos, laughter and questionable decisions that come with full-on family life.


This is real talk, all the while building a community of like-minded mums who get it. Whether you're listening during a quick break or while hiding in the bathroom for a moment of peace (we’ve all been there), I’m Not Judging, But…offers the perfect escape.


I’m Not Judging, But…drops each Thursday. It’s a podcast production by Fin, the Executive Producer is Jojo Strous. You can find us on YouTube @Imnotjudgingbut, Instagram @imnotjudgingbutpod and TikTok @imnotjudgingbutpod.

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