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Festive Plans, Front Row Seats & Firm Opinions.

Season 1, Ep. 15

It’s our final episode before Christmas and Briony, Charlie and Vix are leaning fully into the festive chaos. From who’s hosting who this year and whether they are all up for some Boxing Day karaoke, to your last-minute Christmas dilemmas and the age-old question of teacher gifts… they have opinions. We’re also unpacking whether they're a Type A or Type B mum at Christmas, and squeezing in a little sparkle after being FROW at Strictly last week. Festive plans, strong opinions and plenty of laughs. Consider this your unofficial warm-up to Christmas week.


Plus, if you want to see hilarious outtakes and more video clips from the pod then follow us on Instagram, TikTok and YouTube @imnotjudgingbutpod


Stay tuned for a special episode on the menopause over the festive period - due to drop Monday 29th December.


We'll be back with more episodes from Thursday 8th January. Listen out for some VERY special guests in 2026.

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