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2. You Can't Give Your Partner Their Own Healing
32:27||Season 4, Ep. 2OK kids we're back!Dan and Justin rate how much they like each other at the moment and give some relationship highs and lows from the recent past. Justin shares a new mantra she's been trying out and they explore what it's like to be in a relationship when both partners are in fear. Then Dan share's something that happens to him when he's around "sports guys." Thanks for being here!
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1. The Evangelical Urge
29:21||Season 4, Ep. 1Season 4 is here! Dan and Justin are back and getting more real than ever. They discuss the binary of seeking versus acceptance, Justin's Spanish teacher's feelings towards PHANTOM THREAD, the state of the relationship, and Justin wonders if it's safe for her to participate in an exercise program.Your Anxiety Doesn't have To Be My Anxiety
22:26|We got a shorty for you today. Followed by a singing voice message from Justin's mom, Justin and Dan discuss the ADHD boom/bust cycle, Dan's chaotic nightstand, and then have an honest and at times uncomfortable conversation about something that happened between them while attending a play for Justin's birthday. Anxiety! Autonomy! Parts Work!Justin Bieber's Birthday (and Letting Go of People Pleasing)
33:18|Hey! SO much has happened since last we spoke. Embracing conflict! Moving away from people pleasing behavior! Getting in the arena of life! Get in the water's warm cutie babies.@iimbsbhttps://www.patreon.com/iimbsb10. S3 Finale! Getting Real About What's Not Working
39:18||Season 3, Ep. 10Ok folks, this is the real sh*t. Justin and Dan get into it about their struggles with avoidance and disconnection in the last several months. How can they find each other when things aren't flowing? Is there a way through the struggle?
9. Believing In Your Own Goodness (Ramesh Srivastava of Voxtrot Returns!)
45:37||Season 3, Ep. 9Ramesh is back! And this time he is in a relationship; we dig into it. He tells Dan what he learned from his long tortured history of falling for unavailable men, and what it's like to experience committed love now that he's found it. Spoiler: it's complicated!Check out "Another Fire," Voxtrot's first new release in 14 years!If you are interested in working with Krish and/or Amana you can find them here: https://www.learningloveinstitute.com/The podcaster/therapist Ramesh references is Ken Page of the Deeper Dating Podcast: https://deeperdatingpodcast.com/8. BREAKING: Quirky ENFP Boyfriend Turns Out To Be A Control Freak
38:35||Season 3, Ep. 8Wow there is SO much going on in Episode 8. Justin and Dan process their respective revelations from the last week. What does it really mean to be cringe? Then they dive into the topic of CONTROL. What did control look like in each of Justin and Dan's families growing up and how is it coming into play in their connection and relationship dysfunction. Then they touch on some of the amazing merits of the 12-Step program ACA (Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families).