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HEALING 101: Divorce and the impact on children's well-being with Dr. Angharad Rudkin

Season 5, Ep. 10

On today’s Healing 101, I’m honoured to be speaking to Dr. Angharad Rudkin, a Child Clinical Psychologist from the University of Southampton. Dr. Rudkin shares insights into how children typically react to divorce, the tendency to self-blame, and the influence of age and gender on their responses. She provides valuable guidance for divorcing parents to mitigate adverse effects on their children's mental well-being and relationships. Join us for a brief yet insightful conversation on navigating the complexities of divorce with Dr. Angharad Rudkin.


Find Angharad:

About her: https://www.southampton.ac.uk/psychology/about/staff/ar2r07.page

Instagram: @dr_rudkin

Buy her book 'Split Survival Kit': https://amzn.eu/d/8jfFxU3


Follow Hurt to Healing on Instagram: @hurttohealingpod

Hurt to Healing Website: hurttohealing.co.uk

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