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HEALING 101: CBT made simple with Dr Tom Graham
On today's HEALING 101, I am speaking to Dr. Tom Graham, a counselling psychologist and CBT therapist at Oxford Health Specialist Psychological Intervention Center. Many of you might have heard of the term CBT, but not a lot of people actually know what it is. I thought it was important for Dr. Graham to come on to the podcast to explain CBT in simple terms and how it can help manage many mental health disorders by changing the way you think and behave. The examples he uses a brilliant and I think will resonate with a lot of you.
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13:39|Welcome to Hurt to Healing with me, Pandora Morris. On today’s best bit, we revisit an insightful conversation with Dr. Angharad Rudkin, a child clinical psychologist, who explores how children typically respond to their parents' divorce.Dr. Rudkin explains that children often blame themselves due to their egocentric and magical thinking, and how important it is for parents to constantly reassure them that the divorce isn’t their fault. She also touches on how divorce can impact younger children, teens, and the different ways boys and girls process these emotional changes over time.Follow Hurt to Healing on Instagram: @hurttohealingpodHurt to Healing Website: hurttohealing.co.ukMINI: Spencer Matthews on his attitude towards exercise
11:03|Today, I wanted to share a special clip from a previous conversation with someone many of you might know—Spencer Matthews. Spencer has just completed an incredible feat: 30 marathons in 30 days in the desert, setting a brand-new world record. It's an extraordinary achievement, but what really struck me when we spoke was his attitude towards exercise.I was curious to know if his intense focus on fitness was something he used to replace drinking, or if it had become an addiction in itself. What I discovered was a man deeply passionate about setting challenges for himself and pushing his own limits. As we’re in between seasons, I wanted to start resharing a few clips from some of your favourite episodes as a reminder of the brilliant guests and fascinating conversations we’ve had so far. So, here’s a snippet from my chat with Spencer Matthews—enjoy!Follow Hurt to Healing on Instagram: @hurttohealingpodHurt to Healing Website: hurttohealing.co.uk26. BONUS: Netta Weinstein on solitude and its impact on mental health
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50:10||Season 5, Ep. 23On today’s episode I am joined by Katie Maycock, a Burnout Specialist and Speaker dedicated to helping individuals regain control of their health and overcome burnout. With a background in Nutrition and Physiology, Katie brings a unique blend of personal experience and professional expertise to her work. After experiencing chronic health issues due to her corporate career's demands, Katie embarked on a journey to understand and address burnout's detrimental impact. Now, she works with Type A professionals, including CEOs, Directors, and Entrepreneurs, to help them prioritize their well-being and achieve peak performance.In this insightful conversation, Katie shares her personal journey with burnout, highlighting common signs and symptoms and exploring its effects on relationships and self-perception. She discusses societal pressures, resilience-building techniques, and the importance of seeking support to navigate burnout and cultivate self-compassion. This episode offers valuable insights and practical strategies for anyone seeking to overcome burnout and thrive in both their personal and professional lives.Find Katie:Website: getyourshittogether.ioInstagram: @getyourshittogether.ioFollow Hurt to Healing on Instagram: @hurttohealingpodHurt to Healing Website: hurttohealing.co.uk22. HEALING 101: Safely tapering off SSRIs with Dr. Mark Horowitz
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