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Ed Kirwan: Empathy - The wonder drug
"Empathy is the number one most important skill to be able to thrive professionally and personally."
We're absolutely delighted to have Ed Kirwan on the podcast this week, a former teacher turned filmmaker who is on a mission to make all of us see the tangible benefits of being more empathetic.
Ed is the CEO of Empathy Studios, an education and creative studio using the power of film and storytelling to develop the skill of empathy in all. He is also the Founder of Empathy Week, an annual festival that helps develop the skill of empathy in students aged 5-18.
So, why is empathy so important in life and in the workplace? How do we go about being more empathic? And how does all of this help us and the businesses we own or work in thrive?
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Claire Sanders, former Corporate Lawyer, General Council and Co-Founder of Being Human Consulting.
Helen Silver-MacMahon, Human Factors Specialist, Veterinary Nurse and Co-Founder of Being Human Consulting.
Music Credit: Lo-Fi Hip Hop (Never Old Fashioned) by Alex Kizenkov
Podcast Production: Anthony Zahra
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