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How To Be 60 with Kaye Adams

Helen Lederer on Why She's Not Bitter and Finding the Funny in Life's Challenges

This week on "How to be 60," Kaye and Karen are joined by the hilarious Helen Lederer. Best known for her iconic roles in British comedy, Helen shares her journey of embracing life in her 60s with a blend of humor and honesty. From her standout performances in "Absolutely Fabulous" to her adventures in writing, Helen reveals how she continues to find joy and creativity in this new chapter. Expect plenty of laughs, candid conversations, and insights on how to navigate aging with grace and a good dose of comedy. 


Helen's new book "Not That I'm Bitter" is available to buy now

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