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318. When your partner is still drinking and you're not.

One of the biggest challenges in early sobriety isn’t just saying no to alcohol, it can also be navigating life with a partner who still drinks. When you choose change, it can shift the dynamic between you. In this episode, I explore how to stay grounded in your decision, bring compassion to your partner’s experience, and find new ways to connect without alcohol becoming the centre of your relationship.


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Music for Podcast intro and outro written by Danni Carr performed by Mr Cassidy



If you are struggling with physical dependancy on alcohol consider contacting a local AA meeting or a drug and alcohol therapist. Always consult a GP before stopping alcohol. 


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