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230. The impact of living in survival mode and creating self worth with Kurt Coleman
In this episode, we delve deep into the inspiring journey of Australian social media influencer Kurt Coleman. Kurt shares his candid and moving story, touching upon his struggles with alcohol, navigating boundaries, and finding healing and self-worth.
Kurt reflects on his upbringing on the Gold Coast, where the party scene was prevalent, and alcohol was normalised from a young age. He discusses how growing up without clear boundaries led to precarious situations and challenges in his life. Kurt shares his journey with alcohol and the realisation that boundaries were essential for his recovery. He shares how creating boundaries became a pivotal aspect of his journey towards healing and sobriety.
Through self-reflection, Kurt learned the importance of saying no to himself and establishing trust within. We chat about the difference between confidence and self-esteem, emphasising the role of boundaries in cultivating self-worth. Kurt delves into how setting boundaries not only fosters trust within oneself but also leads to personal growth and healing. He shares personal anecdotes and insights, highlighting the unexpected yet transformative nature of his journey.
Kurt's journey underscores the significance of boundaries in fostering self-trust, healing, and personal development. By cultivating trust and establishing clear boundaries, individuals can enhance their self-worth and navigate life's challenges with resilience.
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If you are struggling with physical dependancy on alcohol consider contacting a local AA meeting or a drug and alcohol therapist. Always consult a GP before stopping alcohol.
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252. From hiding alcohol to living in the light with Michelle from NZ
01:02:50|In this episode, I chat with Michelle, a graduate of the HIQA program, who at the time of this recording is celebrating 9 months alcohol-free.Michelle shares her powerful journey of overcoming hidden drinking habits that spiralled into binge drinking. She opens up about drinking in the mornings to combat hangovers, which often led to all-day binges and passing out on the couch.Her struggle took a toll on her mental health—mood swings, depression, and lies to her husband left him worried and unsure how to help. Overwhelmed by shame and embarrassment, Michelle felt completely lost.Everything changed when she joined the HIQA Alcohol Challenge in January. Since then, she hasn’t touched a drop of alcohol. Through the program, Michelle uncovered the emotional triggers behind her drinking habits and learned how to sit with her feelings, rather than suppressing them with alcohol.In this conversation, Michelle also shares practical tools that helped her navigate cravings and how she managed moments of overwhelm during her early days of sobriety. Tune in for her inspiring story of transformation and the strategies she used to build a healthier, balanced life and becoming a well resourced adult.For more resources such as coaching or to join the next HIQA challenge go towww.iquitalcohol.com.auFollow HIQA insta @howiquitalcohol Music for Podcast intro and outro written by Danni Carr performed by Mr CassidyIf you are struggling with physical dependancy on alcohol consider contacting a local AA meeting or a drug and alcohol therapist. Always consult a GP before stopping alcohol.251. Preparing yourself to take time off alcohol or to change a habit
22:54|In this solo cast, I offer some tips on preparing yourself for taking time off or quitting alcohol or changing a habit.I share some tips on noticing patterns of thought, belief and behaviour.Preparing your body.Making a plan and more.For more resources such as coaching or to join the next HIQA challenge go towww.iquitalcohol.com.auFollow HIQA insta @howiquitalcohol Music for Podcast intro and outro written by Danni Carr performed by Mr CassidyIf you are struggling with physical dependancy on alcohol consider contacting a local AA meeting or a drug and alcohol therapist. Always consult a GP before stopping alcohol.250. Free to just be yourself with Britt Mather
53:10|In this episode, we sit down with Britt, a wedding celebrant and MC based in Byron Bay, who shares her inspiring journey toward self-discovery and sobriety. After hitting rock bottom, Britt took on the HIQA 6-week challenge in January 2024 and is now proudly 9 months sober.Throughout her journey, Britt learned valuable lessons about self-soothing, managing expectations, and sitting with her emotions without seeking external comfort. She also talks about setting clear, solid boundaries and the powerful process of unlearning and relearning behaviours that no longer served her.By gaining confidence, clarity, and time, Britt has been able to refocus on her business and explore exciting new ideas for the future. Don't miss this insightful conversation about growth, resilience, and the freedom that comes with sobriety.To reach out Brit on Insta go to @britt.happydays For more resources such as coaching or to join the next HIQA challenge go towww.iquitalcohol.com.auFollow HIQA insta @howiquitalcohol Music for Podcast intro and outro written by Danni Carr performed by Mr CassidyIf you are struggling with physical dependancy on alcohol consider contacting a local AA meeting or a drug and alcohol therapist. Always consult a GP before stopping alcohol.249. How to not be a dickhead with Kasey Chambers
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29:37|In this episode, Ash and I have a good old chat in the studio celebrating our book release, How I Quit Alcohol, A Rock N Roll Guide To Sobriety. We chat about that first year of sobriety and beyond, how much our life has changed and some of the challenges that we faced in early sobriety. We also talk about why choosing a 12 month break is a great reset and why it's so important to have 100% commitment with your choices. Why changing your self concept is also so important to create lasting and rewarding change. Tune in for those juicy topics and much more... To order the hardcopy of our book go to www.iquitalcohol.com.auOr to order on Kindle go to https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D8PKZ931?ref_=pe_93986420_774987470For more resources such as coaching, retreats or to join the next HIQA challenge go towww.iquitalcohol.com.auFollow HIQA insta @howiquitalcohol Music for Podcast intro and outro written by Danni Carr performed by Mr CassidyIf you are struggling with physical dependancy on alcohol consider contacting a local AA meeting or a drug and alcohol therapist. Always consult a GP before stopping alcohol.246. Rebranding your life with Davidji
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