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HOT TAKE THURSDAY: How can I navigate parenting differences with tech and real-world freedom this summer??

Season 1, Ep. 67

"How do we handle the differences between ourselves and other families who are either more permissive with tech or more conservative with kids having real-world freedom?"


Join Andrea and Jess for HOT TAKE THURSDAY, where we answer this listener's question in a completely unedited and unfiltered way. We may not be right, but we have an opinion!


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Please note while this podcast features two therapists, and may feel very therapeutic, this is not therapy! Please be entertained, and know that through our creative content, we are not providing mental health care. No diagnosis. No treatment. No medical advice. Just creative content. Please seek appropriate mental health support in the real world.

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