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The Fetish of 7 Figures: Why Chasing £1M Might Be Costing You Freedom

“Everyone’s chasing 7 figures — but what if that goal is quietly ruining your peace?


Everyone’s chasing the 7-figure dream — but is it freedom, or just a fancier trap?

In this week’s episode, Becky and Ruth get honest about the obsession with hitting £1M and what it really costs freelancers, founders, and property investors chasing the next milestone.

They share their own early-career “7-figure fixation,” what they learned from scaling too fast, and why boring wealth might actually be the kind that lasts.



Key Takeaways
  • Bigger isn’t always better — growth without intention leads to burnout.
  • Revenue ≠ profit. Don’t confuse shiny numbers with real wealth.
  • Over 50% of UK business owners report poor mental health from financial stress (Simply Business, 2025).
  • Diversification and slower, more aligned growth create sustainable freedom.
  • Your “enough number” is probably smaller — and closer — than you think.


Chapters

00:00 — Welcome to the Honest Property Podcast

00:20 — Why the 7-figure goal feels so seductive

02:30 — How social media fuels the obsession

05:00 — The trap of scaling too fast

07:00 — Burnout, cashflow danger & freelancer pressure in 2025

10:40 — Turnover myths: when big numbers mean nothing

14:00 — Redefining success and the ‘freedom number’

17:30 — Real examples from our own property & business journey

20:00 — Why aligned wealth beats hustle culture every time

23:00 — Final thoughts: success without sacrifice





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Keywords

seven figure business, freelancer burnout, property investing 2025, turnover vs profit, UK entrepreneurs, financial freedom, slow wealth, aligned wealth, money mindset, sustainable business growth

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