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Knowing Me, Knowing You - Raising Awareness of Awareness with Nia Thomas

Season 3, Ep. 3

What part does self-awareness play in effective leadership? How can we intentionally develop our capacity for it and what might the benefits be? What responsibility do we really have for another person's experience of us?


Highly Relational

Season 3 - Episode 3

Knowing Me, Knowing You - Raising Awareness of Awareness

with Nia Thomas


Nia Thomas is a charity director, fellow podcaster and author of ‘The Self-Awareness Superhighway’. Her doctoral research at the University of South Wales Business School explored the links between SELF-AWARENESS and LEADER EFFECTIVENESS. Previously Nia has worked in the NHS, local government and civil service in England and Wales. She is passionate - evangelical even - about raising awareness of awareness, because of the myriad benefits it can bring to our lives. In today's conversation we explore the crucial part self-aware leadership plays in creating generative working environments that meet the needs of our workforce, now and in the future.


Nia Thomas:

www.linkedin.com/in/nia-d-thomas

www.knowingselfknowingothers.co.uk


Robert Digings:

www.linkedin.com/in/robertdigings


Team Development Consultant and Executive Coach

Robert has been working with teams and their challenges for over 20 years. 

He has discovered that the biggest improvements come when a team has the courage to do the challenging work of developing deep personal connections and a real sense of belonging.

In this new business podcast Robert explores the insights, experience and advice from other experts in the field of human collaboration, be they leaders, authors, coaches or consultants.


Production credits:

Audio Engineer at Premiere Podcast Studios - Meghan Thomas   

Post Production - Shaun Lawson

Series Producer - Ella Halsall


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