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26. How to Master Your Energy When Things Don't Go Your Way
28:36||Season 1, Ep. 26Ever notice how your energy changes around someone you like? In this episode, we’re breaking down how to take control of that energy, shift your mindset, and attract the right people by fully owning your worth—even when things don’t go as planned.If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and make sure you SUBSCRIBE!Ratemypod: https://ratethispodcast.com/highvaluedatingYou can LISTEN or WATCH my podcast here: https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedatingIf you are interested in advertising on this podcast email ussales@acast.comTo request Nelly to be on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to talent@pionairepodcasting.comFollow Nelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ask.nelly/Follow Nelly on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcCHAPTERS00:00 - Introduction to High Value Dating00:03 - Challenges of Dating02:18 - Strategies for Meeting Compatible Partners07:32 - Making a Great First Impression08:17 - Overcoming Nervousness in Social Situations11:49 - Self-Concept and Confidence14:24 - Navigating Relationships and Timelines21:15 - Dealing with Rejection and Emotional Resilience26:56 - Conclusion and Call to Action
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25. How Celibacy Can Empower Your Dating Life
38:43||Season 1, Ep. 25In a world dominated by hookup culture, celibacy can be a powerful choice that strengthens your sense of self-worth and helps you set clear boundaries. This episode explores how waiting for the right person can transform your dating life and lead to more meaningful connections.If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and make sure you SUBSCRIBE!Ratemypod: https://ratethispodcast.com/highvaluedatingYou can LISTEN or WATCH my podcast here: https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedatingIf you are interested in advertising on this podcast email ussales@acast.comTo request Nelly to be on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to talent@pionairepodcasting.comFollow Nelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ask.nelly/Follow Nelly on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcCHAPTERS00:00 - Introduction to High Value Dating01:01 - The Role of Sex in Dating04:24 - Perspectives on Celibacy and Sexual Needs09:20 - Risks and Realities of Casual Sex19:00 - Cultural Commentary on Sexualization24:36 - Critique of OnlyFans and Modern Sexual Norms37:55 - Conclusion and Call to Action24. Truth About Attraction
37:29||Season 1, Ep. 24We say we want one thing but chase the opposite. In this episode of High Value Dating, Nelly breaks down why attraction doesn’t always follow logic—and how to actually get what and who you want.If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and make sure you SUBSCRIBE!Ratemypod: https://ratethispodcast.com/highvaluedatingYou can LISTEN or WATCH my podcast here: https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedatingIf you are interested in advertising on this podcast email ussales@acast.comTo request Nelly to be on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to talent@pionairepodcasting.comFollow Nelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ask.nelly/Follow Nelly on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcCHAPTERS00:00 - Introduction to High Value Dating00:03 - Frustrations in Dating00:59 - Understanding Attraction02:22 - Cultural Norms and Personal Reflection08:43 - The Challenge of Desirability10:27 - The Importance of Self-Improvement17:56 - Navigating Relationships and Expectations36:57 - Conclusion and Call to Action23. Let Go of Expectations & Start Choosing Yourself
26:40||Season 1, Ep. 23Are you setting yourself up for disappointment with unrealistically high expectations? In this episode, we’re talking about how to handle rejection, shift your perspective, and turn setbacks into redirection. Listen up as we break down the mindset shifts that help you let go, move forward, and start choosing you!If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and make sure you SUBSCRIBE!Ratemypod: https://ratethispodcast.com/highvaluedatingYou can LISTEN or WATCH my podcast here: https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedatingIf you are interested in advertising on this podcast email ussales@acast.comTo request Nelly to be on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to talent@pionairepodcasting.comFollow Nelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ask.nelly/Follow Nelly on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcCHAPTERS00:00 - Introduction to High Value Dating01:00 - The Challenge of Dating09:26 - Understanding Rejection10:51 - Shifting Mindsets20:21 - Self-Love and Value24:48 - Conclusion and Encouragement22. How to Spot When Someone Is Love Bombing You?
26:22||Season 1, Ep. 22Is it too good to be true? You might be getting love bombed! It can feel nice at first, but it’s important to tread lightly. While it’s not always a red flag, in this episode, we’ll walk you through the signs and what to watch out for!If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and make sure you SUBSCRIBE!Ratemypod: https://ratethispodcast.com/highvaluedatingYou can LISTEN or WATCH my podcast here: https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedatingIf you are interested in advertising on this podcast email ussales@acast.comTo request Nelly to be on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to talent@pionairepodcasting.comFollow Nelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ask.nelly/Follow Nelly on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcCHAPTERS00:00 - Introduction to Love Bombing01:24 - Understanding Love Bombing08:29 - Caution with Love Bombing09:10 - Identifying Love Bombing14:28 - Navigating Relationships20:07 - Self-Worth and Independence25:41 - Conclusion and Call to Action21. Getting Everything You Want WITHOUT the Chase
33:57||Season 1, Ep. 21Today we’re breaking down the secret to getting what you want—whether it’s in relationships, career, or life without coming off as too eager. Learn how to shift your mindset, embody confidence, and let things flow naturally in your favor. Sometimes, less really is more.If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and make sure you SUBSCRIBE!Ratemypod: https://ratethispodcast.com/highvaluedatingYou can LISTEN or WATCH my podcast here: https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedatingIf you are interested in advertising on this podcast email ussales@acast.comTo request Nelly to be on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to talent@pionairepodcasting.comFollow Nelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ask.nelly/Follow Nelly on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcCHAPTERS00:00 - Introduction to High Value Dating01:06 - The Concept of Wanting Nothing06:18 - Personal Experiences and Stories12:38 - Balancing Wanting and Not Wanting14:07 - Gratitude and Abundance Mindset23:25 - The Importance of a Full Life33:00 - Conclusion and Call to Action20. Here’s Why Discomfort is NECESSARY for Growth
26:41||Season 1, Ep. 20Nelly gets real about her own experiences with moving to a new place and the change that comes with it. If you’re feeling stuck or scared to take the next step, this conversation will remind you that discomfort isn’t the end—it’s where real transformation begins!If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and make sure you SUBSCRIBE!Ratemypod: https://ratethispodcast.com/highvaluedatingYou can LISTEN or WATCH my podcast here: https://link.chtbl.com/highvaluedatingIf you are interested in advertising on this podcast email ussales@acast.comFollow Nelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ask.nelly/Follow Nelly on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ask.nelly?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcCHAPTERS 00:00 - Introduction to the Podcast01:01 - Embracing Change05:19 - Appreciating the Present06:57 - Navigating Transitions08:30 - Dating and Discomfort11:22 - Taking Action in Dating14:51 - Manifesting Your Desires25:53 - Conclusion and Encouragement