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The Hidden 20%

Sunil Patel on ADHD: "That hidden 20% makes the magic happen"

Season 1, Ep. 18

With season 2 right around the corner, we thought we'd drop a bonus episode to keep you going!


A few weeks back, we recorded a special episode LIVE at The Podcast Show with our friends from TYX. We invited Sunil Patel from the award-winning Whisper to talk all things late-diagnosis ADHD, running a business when you're neurodivergent, and pushing the boundaries of television. Sunil was amazing, and so is this episode!


Season 2 is coming soon, watch this space! Literally...


WATCH the full episode at www.youtube.com/@hidden20podcast

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On "The Hidden 20%," host Ben Branson chats with neurodivergent [ADHD, Autism, Dyscalculia, Dyslexia, Dyspraxia, Tourette's etc.] creatives, entrepreneurs, and experts to see how great minds.. think differently.

 

Host: Ben Branson

Producer: Bella Neale

Video Editor: Jame Scriven

Social Media Manager: Charlie Young

Music: Jackson Greenberg


Brought to you by charity Prism ND #1203348

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