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Retiring My Husband Through Real Estate, 14,000 Hours Cold-Calling | Jennifer Steward

Season 1, Ep. 12

"I've never seen a return on my investment from being submissive." Join me for a genuinely EPIC episode with Jennifer Steward, a real estate powerhouse who owns multiple businesses and has logged over 14,000 hours cold-calling.   Our hilarious and inspiring conversation dives deep into the secrets of her success--including what high achieving women should look for in a partner!   Discover how Jenn transitioned from a tough childhood to becoming a successful housewife and business owner, and even recently retiring her husband. We also discuss the traits of an exceptional cold-caller, why some people can shrug off rejection like pros, and what truly distinguishes top-notch investors from the rest. 


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Timestamps

0:00-From being a housewife to retiring her husband

16:06-Building an identity you love

17:54-"Lead me, follow me, or get out the way"

20:54-Making $5 an hour after graduating Summa Cum Laude

32:27-Why cold-calling is useless if you don't know how to close

46:48-From feeling unlovable to feeling safe and worthy


Resources

The Body Keeps the Score Book

The submissive shirt

My interview with Dr Candice Duncan


Connect

Contact Etinosa

Contact Jennifer (Facebook)

Glossary of Real Estate Terms

Bonus Episode: 7 Lies in Real Estate


Credits

Host – Etinosa Agbonlahor

Production – Tolu Soile

Bossa in My Heart – Serge Quadrado Music

Fireplace Ad – Music by audionautix.com

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