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Devious Dilemmas: My Girlfriend’s mad I went to a Stripclub…

Season 1, Ep. 21

You asked, and we listened! To round off the season, we're back with two more listener dilemmas!


This week, we have problems that are sure to spark a lively discussion. First up, one listener wants to know: "Is my girlfriend overreacting about me getting a dance in a strip club?" Is it just a dance, or is there more to the story?


Next, we look at a hilariously messy situation when another listener confesses to pissing the sofa after a night of heavy drinking—but hiding it from their housemates! Does he come clean or keep the secret?


It’s a season finale filled with laughs, insights, and maybe a little advice you never thought you'd need. You won't want to miss this one!

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