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Growing Pains
Wired for addiction: How gaming prompts neurological responses that promote reward and pleasure
Season 1, Ep. 6
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Family psychotherapist and author Richard Hogan joins ieParenting editor Irene Feighan to chat about the impact that gaming and gaming culture have on children.
Gaming can be more than a fun pastime for some. The World Health Organization has classified severe gaming as a new mental health condition.
Here, Hogan talks about the signs of excessive gaming, setting boundaries, and not depending on games and devices to keep children occupied.
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