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Relationships & Boundaries: The Secret to Tutoring Longevity

Longevity in tutoring isn’t just about being great at teaching — it’s about being great at relationships. In this episode of Grow Your Tutoring Business, Richard explores how strong rapport and open communication reduce friction in your business, making it easier to handle the everyday flashpoints that can trip tutors up: late payments, mixed messages, cancellations, and awkward conversations. He also zooms out to the bigger picture — relationships with schools, local authorities, charities, and like-minded education businesses — and why trust, consistency, and showing up authentically can lead to more referrals, smoother collaboration, and better outcomes for the children and young people you support.


Richard then brings it back to the power of boundaries: not as walls to keep people out, but as clear “rules of engagement” that protect your time, energy, professionalism, and standards. You’ll hear practical examples of where tutors often slip up (out-of-hours messaging, unclear cancellation expectations, blurred roles with schools) and a simple framework to handle tricky moments: stay warm, firm, and clear. If you want to build a tutoring business that lasts — and create calm, predictable working relationships that support learning — this is the episode to share with a fellow tutor.


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