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Episode 198 - Not Being a Misery Guts

Season 5, Ep. 198

We often end up taking turns being grumpy at work or in our relationships. Sometimes it doesn’t feel fair to have to bring the energy. Sometimes all we want to do is throw a temper tantrum or sulk. How can we deal with this better, and how do we help others to recognise our own emotional labour?


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Streamed Live on https://twitch.tv/michaelforrest, Friday 1st April 2022

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Ivanka’s Blog https://ivanka.blog

---- This Week's Links ----

[1] Michael’s unrepairable MacBook Pro - https://www.ifixit.com/Teardown/MacBook+Pro+15-Inch+Touch+Bar+2018+Teardown/111478 

[2] How Emotional Labor Affects Women's Careers

 - https://www.forbes.com/sites/melodywilding/2018/06/06/dont-be-the-office-mom-how-emotional-labor-affects-womens-careers/ 

[3] It’s OK to - https://twitter.com/gdsteam/status/877806951693864960?lang=en-GB 

[4] Our interview with Rabbi David Paskin - https://canyouseemyscreenpodcast.com/episodes/7-raising-our-remote-presentation-game-with-david-paskin

[5] We Are Two - Left brain/right brain discussion - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wfYbgdo8e-8



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Talking is by Ivanka Majic and Michael Forrest

Music available on Apple Music | Spotify | Bandcamp

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