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18 Rounds of IVF, Surrogacy and Hope with Lisa Messenger

Season 6, Ep. 88

18 Rounds of IVF, Surrogacy, and Hope with Lisa Messenger


We’re joined by entrepreneur and founder of the Collective Hub, Lisa Messenger, to talk about coming back from rock bottom and building an empire. Lisa walks us through her 8-year journey of 18 rounds of IVF leading to surrogacy, the loss of her Dad suddenly, and what she’s learned about being resilient during hard times.


Find out more about Lisa, buy her books, and connect with her here.


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